Controlling friend dilemma!!?

Maybe she's having an identity crisis. Could be she's lonely and trying to fit in. She sounds like someone to stay away from. If these people you are talking about are your friends and now there giving you the cold shoulder because of something she said, then you don't need them either. That's not how friends do. And this woman should be hanging out with people her own age. She will make your life a living hell if you let her. Don't give her the satisfaction, act like whatever. Maybe she will go away. Good Luck.